
Rachel's Library
As a lifelong learner and a Ph.D. candidate, I love to read. Here are some of the books that have changed my life for the better and given me invaluable tools to grow into my best self.
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The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk
This seminal work on trauma talks about how trauma gets stored in the body (DUH) in a way that is accessible and very readable. It changed my relationship with myself because it helped me move from thinking there was something wrong with me to understanding that these were learned behaviors and postures that were hurting me, and could also be released.

Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Heal From Lost Nuturance, Protection & Guidance by Kelly MacDaniels
Not all mother wounds are HUGE. Some of them lay in the little things that we didn't receive, and then we don't know why we feel a gaping hole as an adult. Whether a capital-T trauma or a lower-case t trauma, Mother Hunger helps put language to that and also helps with some really down-to-earth strategies on how to reparent yourself.

Good Energy: The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health by Dr. Casey Means
This empowering book helps put us in charge of our health again and make us partners with our providers, not their patients or victims. We have agency! Means tackles how diet, movement, and mindfulness are the first line of defense with regards to our health. She also gives really specific breakdowns of certain lab levels, optimal versus normal results, and explains every. single. food.

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
Hands down the best book on the market about attachment styles, and a practical understanding of what that means in relationships, what is mine to figure out, and what is my partners to be sensitive towards.

The Encyclopedia of Ailments and Diseases: How to Heal the Conflicted Feelings, Emotions, and Thoughts at the Root of Illness
This is my go-to book to look up the emotional root cause behind whatever is happening physically. And let me tell you, it's always on point! Note: this is not to say you don't need to tend to your physical body like by eating the right foods, resting, moving and, when needed, seeing a doctor, but it does provide the framework for WHY a particular ailment is happening to you now (or happening to you and no one else in your family etc.)

The Subltle Art of Not Giving a F* by Mark Manson
LOL, this was one of the first self-help books I read-- before I was willing to read self-help books. I absolutely loved it because Mark writes like your angry, drunk bestie dropping the most thoughtful and sharp truthbombs while also making you roll on the floor laughing.














